I recently fell out with a friend - there were reasons and I won't go into it here but it is the friend I mentioned below in earlier entries.

Anyway said friend owes me £80 which to me is a lot of money; it was supposed to arrive by this weekend at the latest and nothing came so I emailed to ask when I expected the money and the reply I recieved was incredibly unbelievable.

I normally wouldn't make things like this public but I am SOOO angry that I don't care because as usual she's the victim and I've been the worst effing bitch ever- well sod it. Three nice people don't stop talking to you for no reason and I've had enough of being treated like crap.

Her email bits are in bold and I've added comments after each point.

1. You’re perfectly right, I do have a full-time job. One that is extremely stressful and your harassment doesn’t help matters. I would appreciate it greatly if you refrained from emailing me at work when I have other things that take up the majority of my time here. As if I’ve not been hurt enough by you. Your complete lack of respect and total ingratitude for the last five years of friendship we’ve had together has completely broken my heart more than anything else ever has done. I do mean that, I am not being melodramatic. Think what you like.

It's funny how this job was never that stressful when she sent 20+ emails a day a few months ago.

Along with the words 'ravage' and 'ravish' (and the difference between them) she needs to add the word 'harassment' to her dictionary check up list. I have been very patient with her and have not gotten in touch with for a couple of weeks in any way. But that's her - being melodramatic as usual. I only emailed to ask when I would see my money as I need it.

She needs to think about her complete selfishness and lask of respect of people before she accuses me of it. I have plenty of friends and certainly don't need her. Don't they say you can measure a person by their friends? We have had some great times and I did have some great memories but she's tarnished them for ever now.

>>> The second point is private as it about financial stuff - she needs to learn about money; it's not always there to spend sadly.

3. You will get your money WHEN I have it AFTER everyone else has been paid off and not a moment before. I will send XXX a cheque at the same time as I send yours. I would send you two post dated cheques for 22 December but to be honest I don’t think you’d have the decency to not attempt to cash them before the date of the cheque. I want you out of my life just as much as you want me out of yours. It is a concern. You and XX should have your money by Christmas.

Where does she think she has that right to tell me like this when I will expect the money. I wouldn't have minded if she has said 'I'm sorry I couldn't pay you before Sunderland will the 22nd December be alright?'. And why the hell would she think I'd try and cash a cheque that isn't authorised till the 22nd December- it wouldn't go through and plus I'd be aware that it would bounce if I tried that.

Believe me I've wanted this person out of my life for a long long time.

4. Manners cost nothing. I would’ve thought you of all people would have known that.

Said person needs to learn some manners because of the way I have seen her treat some people.

5. Don’t bother replying because I won’t read it. I have completely had enough of you. Stop it. Leave me alone. Please. This whole debacle has made me extremely ill and I can’t take any more of it.

Pathetic. I believe she is scared of the home truths I could email back to her.

I don't believe anyone should be treated like this - she owes me the money and I wanted to (rightly) know where it was - how am I supposed to know it is due in December when I've been told November?

Sorry guys - I needed to vent.